I'd been married for years and never experienced or believed in the whole 'love at first sight' until I did at a cook out. My ex was with me when I met this person. He is in a relationship and so was I, so all we could ever be is freinds. But I must say, I was a changed woman from that day on. I only thought I knew what love was until that crazy day. Since we're such good friends, we ride and socialize together, which is great because I get to hang out with him. The worse part is the call each night when he tells me he loves me and I'm his bestfriend.
lakeland33813 write:
I never did. Until that fate full day. When I seen her for the first time. I pray to god never experience that again. It was like being hit by a bolt of ligthning. I was dumb struck nd tounge tied. I could not think straight. It hurt deep inside. I was in heaven and hell at the same time. And of course I got the "lets be friends" speech. I would not give up the sweet pain and I would give my very soul for the pleasure of feeling her pressed against me. I would rip my heart out of my chest to show what she meant. And I'd give my life for the feeling to go away. But it will always be with me. I close my eyes and I can smell her. Maybe one day it will be a sweet memory. Maybe it will always be with me. Either way, I thank God for showing her to me and every day of my life I will strife to be the kind of person she would have taken for her man.
lakeland33813 write:
I never did. Until that fate full day. When I seen her for the first time. I pray to god never experience that again. It was like being hit by a bolt of ligthning. I was dumb struck nd tounge tied. I could not think straight. It hurt deep inside. I was in heaven and hell at the same time. And of course I got the "lets be friends" speech. I would not give up the sweet pain and I would give my very soul for the pleasure of feeling her pressed against me. I would rip my heart out of my chest to show what she meant. And I'd give my life for the feeling to go away. But it will always be with me. I close my eyes and I can smell her. Maybe one day it will be a sweet memory. Maybe it will always be with me. Either way, I thank God for showing her to me and every day of my life I will strife to be the kind of person she would have taken for her man.
lakeland that will always be with you--she owns a part of your soul/heart
not saying it won't happen again and the feeling may change for her--but she will always be there
the biggy is truely loving someone is letting them go and wanting them to be happy--unconditional love--if you are meant to be together it will happen when it is supposed to--if not the right person that you both feel the same for each other will come into your life
I never did. Until that fate full day. When I seen her for the first time. I pray to god never experience that again. It was like being hit by a bolt of ligthning. I was dumb struck nd tounge tied. I could not think straight. It hurt deep inside. I was in heaven and hell at the same time. And of course I got the "lets be friends" speech. I would not give up the sweet pain and I would give my very soul for the pleasure of feeling her pressed against me. I would rip my heart out of my chest to show what she meant. And I'd give my life for the feeling to go away. But it will always be with me. I close my eyes and I can smell her. Maybe one day it will be a sweet memory. Maybe it will always be with me. Either way, I thank God for showing her to me and every day of my life I will strife to be the kind of person she would have taken for her man.
barb_wire000 write:
The realistic side of me says that I believe in "lust" at first site. The squishy side of me is sure that I'll know it the moment I see it!
Yea my last marriage I messed up!! It was love at first sight for me and lust and convienience for her!! Sometimes I'm a dumbazz!!
I believe in love at first site. That's the way it was with my old ex.I met him at a friends house 13yrs ago.
I went to my friends house and he opened the door for me, that was it he made me melted right on the front steps I couldn't stop looking at him.
Now 13yrs later, we ran into each other again, actually he found me again this time - the minute he walk threw my door he did it again to me. "dammit" how does he do that? - he's the only one that's ever did that to me. -
I'm trying to keep a little distance now, can't get too caught up in the emotions department - just taken it slow this time and we'll see how it goes. "Haste makes waist"
Yea just be careful, yer playin with fire to some extent!!
speedyjerry write:
"Man, Tink! I know you speak from your heart so I'll speak from mine,..I have no regrets of my time with him...he treated me like I was made of gold! As for someone else? Well, we'll see what the stars hold for me! I'm not ready yet...this I know!"....................
For me Jerry? How perfect they are!
That's my favorite, I wouldn't just give them to anyone you know!
speedyjerry write:
"Man, Tink! I know you speak from your heart so I'll speak from mine,..I have no regrets of my time with him...he treated me like I was made of gold! As for someone else? Well, we'll see what the stars hold for me! I'm not ready yet...this I know!"....................
barb_wire000 write:
The realistic side of me says that I believe in "lust" at first site. The squishy side of me is sure that I'll know it the moment I see it!
Yea my last marriage I messed up!! It was love at first sight for me and lust and convienience for her!! Sometimes I'm a dumbazz!!
"Man, Tink! I know you speak from your heart so I'll speak from mine,..I have no regrets of my time with him...he treated me like I was made of gold! As for someone else? Well, we'll see what the stars hold for me! I'm not ready yet...this I know!"....................
Carolina_girl write:
Angelrider, I'm sorry for your loss as well as mine, but i've come to the conclusion its their loss not ours.When a guy can go from 100 to 0 in about 2.2 seconds, don't need it anyway.
Take care and ride safe!
Thanks Carolina...kudos to you! I know someday I'll be ok again...this is the second time I've ever been IN love...he was and still is the most perfect man I've ever known...makes it hard to even think of another one coming into my life! Of course, he's moving forward and I'm so happy for him! I want him to live and love and reap nothing but the happiest times he can! That's the only thing that will make all of this worth going through! Until we meet, Carolina....God's blessings Sister!
Angelrider, I'm sorry for your loss as well as mine, but i've come to the conclusion its their loss not ours.When a guy can go from 100 to 0 in about 2.2 seconds, don't need it anyway.
i do believe in love at 1st site--but i don't think that all is necessarily 2-sided--most isn't
i also believe that if it isn't 2-sided that the person that has felt the love at 1st site needs to use caution and patience in letting the other know how they feel until they have been together for awhile because it may produce a fear and you add to the possiblity of them putting on their boots, getting on the bike and hitting the hills
i know my ex told me about a mth after we started dating that he had fallen in love with me at 1st site (we met in Aug and didn't date until Feb)--he broke off and engagement with someone and it took him 3 mths to get up the nerve to ask me out--when he told me i told him that i cared about him alot--but i couldn't at that time tell him i loved him--i did grow to love him deeply--(i sometimes think his telling me put me more at ease with letting down the bariers that can be built from all past hurts)life issues happened and we lasted only a total of 25 years--and that's not bad
now if he had taken the fact that i couldn't tell him that i loved him right away and left--we would have lost some great moments together--also some not so great moments--but i wouldn't change it for one minute--because i have 2 great kids and 2 great grandkids
so yes love at 1st site does exist but 2-sided love at 1st site???????????? that i don't know
Man, Tink! I know you speak from your heart so I'll speak from mine,..I have no regrets of my time with him...he treated me like I was made of gold! As for someone else? Well, we'll see what the stars hold for me! I'm not ready yet...this I know!
I hear ya Hun. Come sit on the bench with me and we'll cheer on the others.
Scoot over, Tink...I can't see the "game" for that post in the way...and I do so want to see some happy faces!
Man, Tink! I know you speak from your heart so I'll speak from mine,..I have no regrets of my time with him...he treated me like I was made of gold! As for someone else? Well, we'll see what the stars hold for me! I'm not ready yet...this I know!
I hear ya Hun. Come sit on the bench with me and we'll cheer on the others.
Harleygirl_2000 write:
Angel, I am so sorry that it did not work out for you.. You seemed so happy in Myrtle. Taking time for your self is a good thing... I think I have just taken alittle too much time.lol.. Anyway hope you have a great birthday.. have fun at Docs..
Brenda
Hi Brenda...I'm doing better..just trying to get my life used to oneness again. I go riding with different friends but it's going to be a hell of a long time before someone gets in my life again..ya know? lol
Going to VA for my real B-day...having a tat designed for me by a friend of my sister's...going on my left shoulder or over my heart...can't decide yet..you aren't far from VA..just over the Bay Bridge Tunnel...you should come down and party with us!
Angel darlin, it s*cks in spades that you got your heart broken, you soooo don't deserve it, but I'm not sorry at all that it ended. That just means that you are available now to meet the 'right' guy who will treat you in a custom to which you so rightly deserve and make some VERY lucky guy the happiest dude on the planet. A relationship that doesn't work out is just another life lesson that makes you the sweet and precious gem that you are darlin. We all have to endure the lessons to complete the education and when it comes graduation day, it just makes the celebration that much sweeter. Don't stop swinging just because you struck out Sweetheart, there will be other innings and soon you'll hit a game winning homerun.
If you need an ear, you know where to find me Sweetie. I'll be over here warming the bench for ya.
Man, Tink! I know you speak from your heart so I'll speak from mine,..I have no regrets of my time with him...he treated me like I was made of gold! As for someone else? Well, we'll see what the stars hold for me! I'm not ready yet...this I know!
seeme1st write:
tinker you are a sweet man--and your someone special will be in your life also
Thanks Seeme, I don't think I've quite given up all hope... yet, I guess if I had I wouldn't be here. I just need somebody to invent a whacko-detector. LOL Actually, some of the very sweet and thoughtful ladies from BK have given me hope that maybe there are still some great ladies out there that aren't all spoken for yet, and maybe when I'm ready to put my head in the mouth of the lion again, I'll be able to scare me up a treasure of my own. Until then, I'm just lickin my wounds and trying not to become a bitter recluse. LOL All you wonderful ladies who have given me kind words and sweet messages have gone a long way towards preventing that. Thanks again to all the awesome BK ladies, I love you all.
Harleygirl_2000 write:
Angel, I am so sorry that it did not work out for you.. You seemed so happy in Myrtle. Taking time for your self is a good thing... I think I have just taken alittle too much time.lol.. Anyway hope you have a great birthday.. have fun at Docs..
Brenda
Hi Brenda...I'm doing better..just trying to get my life used to oneness again. I go riding with different friends but it's going to be a hell of a long time before someone gets in my life again..ya know? lol
Going to VA for my real B-day...having a tat designed for me by a friend of my sister's...going on my left shoulder or over my heart...can't decide yet..you aren't far from VA..just over the Bay Bridge Tunnel...you should come down and party with us!
Angel darlin, it s*cks in spades that you got your heart broken, you soooo don't deserve it, but I'm not sorry at all that it ended. That just means that you are available now to meet the 'right' guy who will treat you in a custom to which you so rightly deserve and make some VERY lucky guy the happiest dude on the planet. A relationship that doesn't work out is just another life lesson that makes you the sweet and precious gem that you are darlin. We all have to endure the lessons to complete the education and when it comes graduation day, it just makes the celebration that much sweeter. Don't stop swinging just because you struck out Sweetheart, there will be other innings and soon you'll hit a game winning homerun.
If you need an ear, you know where to find me Sweetie. I'll be over here warming the bench for ya.
Harleygirl_2000 write:
Angel, I am so sorry that it did not work out for you.. You seemed so happy in Myrtle. Taking time for your self is a good thing... I think I have just taken alittle too much time.lol.. Anyway hope you have a great birthday.. have fun at Docs..
Brenda
Hi Brenda...I'm doing better..just trying to get my life used to oneness again. I go riding with different friends but it's going to be a hell of a long time before someone gets in my life again..ya know? lol
Going to VA for my real B-day...having a tat designed for me by a friend of my sister's...going on my left shoulder or over my heart...can't decide yet..you aren't far from VA..just over the Bay Bridge Tunnel...you should come down and party with us!
Angel, I am so sorry that it did not work out for you.. You seemed so happy in Myrtle. Taking time for your self is a good thing... I think I have just taken alittle too much time.lol.. Anyway hope you have a great birthday.. have fun at Docs..
Love at first site is wonderful until you find out you've been played and still say they are in love with you, go figure.I was born at night, but it wasn't last night.
