Looking for the same thing, a good man who is also a bad boy, with one thing to add. He needs to accept me as to who I am, not what he thinks he can turn me into as I do him.
I understand your angst. I'm a self sufficient pretty lady that either intimidates men or have them just use me for what I have. Just looking for a fun loving teddy bear that wont suck me dry.
The issue is not finding a man who wants to be with a single women the problem is finding a women who will be with one guy and when she finds the right guy and is willing to say the grass is green enough....¿ I wish I could find a women who could do that....
I have only found TWO places on earth¿ wherein some of the men are both TRULY good in terms of kind, honest, loyal, sweet, helpful and so forth and YET "naughty" --------- a biker club is one for the men in the club take the oath of brotherhood seriously and so are FORCED whether they ever wed or go to church or keep a job to learn to endure, share and suffer all for the sake of some adpoted family, the other is AA, some of the guys that go to¿that kind of self help rehab¿are really philosophical, deep, spiritual, ¿smart and yet "naughty".........
All I know is that when I see a couple who really seem connected, respectful of each other and accepting of each other, I think to myself, "I want that!" I just cant seem to find a guy that aint skeered when it comes right down to meeting in person. Big, tall badass looking dudes can totally flake out just like the women being described here. Im just saying...
Biggest problem I seem to run into is PSYCHO women. They claim to have either been physically, verbally or mentally abused and then seem to want to take it out on us guys who have done nothing wrong. The other problem is at this age they all seem to going through menopause or that's the excuse I most commonly hear. It's either that or they are to materialistic. Take me for who and what I am and nothing else. Don't lie to me or cheat on me. I don't and don't expect it back that is what always seems to happen at least in my case. I guess I am just to trusting.
We are out here! Problem is every time one of you ladies get one of us you start the changing us thing. And the relationship goes to crap. Try accepting us as we are not how you want us in the future. Good Luck!
O were out here. You will probably even walk past one or two of us today but you will never see us... Because your to busy trying to find the "bad" who generaly just turn out to be loud mouth jerks and you walk right past the "good" and never even notice. If you learn how to see the ghost in the crowd. You might just find what your looking for... Good Luck...
well I might like to be a bad boy sometimes but always try to be a real good man but seems like I have been too nice cuz seems like the guys that run around and are mean to there woman seems like they stay right along maybe I'm too good for my own good maybe I'm not a challenge
hope Ya'll have a wonderful day
Michael
From Louisiana
Yes I agree I know that there are good bad boys out there, But they put off this bad so good that they miss us good girls and then we all lose so keep your hopes up and so will I.Blondie in Centeral California and sexy single too.
